Imaginary Friend

Aaron got a friend that only he can see. At the moment, as he's having his snack he's talking to Brother John (from the nursery rhyme "Are you sleeping, Brother John?") He's sharing his peanutbutter jelly sandwich and orange juice with his friend.
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У Аарона появился воображаемый друг-Брат Джон (из английской детской песенки). Аарон сидит за столом и кушает бутерброд с арахисовым маслом и вареньем, и запивает апельсиновым соком. Время от времени он протягивает свой бутерброд кому-то и говорит: "Кушай, Бразер Джон. Эрон поделился с бразер Джоном." Потом говорит: "Эрон хочет писять." Я говорю: "Давай скорее пошли". А он: "И бразер Джон тоже идет писять".

He'd better be embarrassed of this when he gets older

Aaron found my only pair of high-heeled shoes in the closet.

This morning...

...I went to pick up Aaron in his bed. He seemed to be in a good mood, so I asked him:
-Are you going to be in a good mood today?
He answered: Yes! Aaron woke up on the right side of the bed.

Сегодня утром я спросила Аарона:
-Ты проснулся в хорошем настроении?
-Да! Аарон встал с той ноги.
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After we visited the farm I asked Aaron to tell me what animals he saw there. He said:
-There were chickens, and pigs...
-And what color were the pigs?
He thought for a moment then said: Usually, pigs are pink, but the pigs on the farm were some unclear color (They were sort of grey/black and white)
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We were talking about a friend of his and Aaron said:
-We need to buy him a mommy?
-A mommy?
-Nooooo....Mommies are not sold.
-Then where do you get a mommy?
-Papa gets you a mommy.
-And where do you get a papa?
-God gives us papas...

Разговаривали с Аароном о его друге. Аарон говорит:
-Ему нужно купить маму.
-Маму?
-Нееет...Мамы не продаются.
-А где же берутся мамы?
-Папа дает маму.
-А кто дает нам папу?
-Бог!

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We were reading a book about this tiny girl who was found in a flower (not sure of the English name) We get to the page where the elf boy and the girl are playing together-the happy end. Aaron goes:
-But in reality elfs do not exist!

Читали с Аароном сказку про Дюймовочку. На последней странице Дюймовочка нарисована с Принцем Эльфом. Аарон говорит:-Но на самом деле, эльфов не бывает!

Homestead Farm

Aaron and I joined a group of other moms and kids today at Homestead Farm for a hay ride, apple picking and animal petting. Everyone had a very good time. Of course, Aaron's favorite were the tractors and the hay ride but he enjoyed every moment at the farm. On the way home he ate a whole apple (no leftovers) and fell asleep at home in 10 minutes. More pictures in the new photoalbum.

[As we came we were greeted by the friendliest retrievers who live on the farm]

[And off we go!]

[The best farms have real tractors on site]

[Bye-bye! Munching on a delicious apple]

Books

We recently purchased these books for Aaron. They're very good and I would recommend them to anyone who has young children:

[Aaron might be a little young for this one-he hasn't seen it yet-but it describes everything about how our body is built and how it functions on a kid's level. Beautiful pictures. Very interesting]



[Awesome book about animals. Colorful, big pictures, has lots to offer for an exploring mind]



[Excellent source for a parent who didn't grow up in the US culture-that is me. It offers lots of rhymes, songs and folk tales that American parents should know. I find the songs on youtube and Aaron and I sing along. Besides, it talks about a preschooler's development and provides some guidence to the parents. I thought it was meant mainly for parents, but Aaron likes to sit down with me and look through the pictures that accompany the rhymes, songs and tales. The book is broken into several sections, including art, science, history...And though I am not the biggest art connaisseur, I enjoy going through it with Aaron. It's amazing how many details he can spot in a painting that I don't pay attention to. Also, it's a great way to develop a child's language skills offering him an opportunity to talk about a painting.]

I would caution parents, though, that DK First Reference books (like the first and second ones) support the evolution theory. You don't find it much in the books but every now and then there is a line about how humans came from monkeys:) We're not sharing that with Aaron right now, and when he gets older we'll use it as an opportunity to tell him that it's deception.

Our sweet little Aaron

Oh, where do I even begin to talk about him. He is the source of the greatest joy, happiness and encouragement and at the same I often feel discouraged and overwhelmed. I am definitely feeling a lot of "perks" that come with this age. And I can't help but be surprised how different his personalities can be from day to day, how 2 opposite natures can combine in one humanbeing. Some days he's the sweetest boy I've known: loving, caring, attentive, compassionate, independent (in a good way), and then there come the days when I just don't recognize him and wonder where all THIS came from. Sometimes I get discouraged not knowing how to find the way to his heart to change his behavior, rather, his attitude. But I keep pressing on because I know I'll reap later what I sow now. I understand that it's a critical period in his life and this behavior is typical for this age, but nevertheless, that doesn't make me feel better because something still has to be done to correct this behavior and attitude. His negative attitude is directly mainly towards me, not so much towards Cliff, and I haven't seen him acting out with other children at the playground (at least, not yet). I wonder if that's because I spend the most time with him enforcing rules, so for him it's like a battle for power and control.
I just pray and pray and pray for wisdom to raise him a Godly man.
New development in his eating habits: I stopped spoonfeeding him anything a couple of days ago. So far not as bad as I expected. And indeed, it worked for the benefit of everyone.
Last night was rough: our neighbors' car alarm went off twice(right under Aaron's window). I slept in and we all missed church. So, we decided to do home church with Aaron. We read the story about David and Goliath from Aaron's children's Bible that Uncle Carter and Aunt Becky gave him, discussed it, sang a song "Only a boy named David" and watched the Veggie Tales cartoon about David and Goliath. Aaron enjoyed our home service:)

Finish Line

I guess I am officially in my 3rd trimester now. Hopefully the finish won't be for another 3 months but I bet they'll fly even faster than the rest of my pregnancy.

I had my 28 week appointment today and was tested for gestational diabetes (routine testing). I don't know the results yet. The baby girl measures at 28 weeks as she should be, her heartbeat was 152 beats/minute. She's moving and kicking and I think she moved into the right position with her head down because I feel much stronger kicks under my ribs. We'll see where she is in 1 week...I am having another ultrasound. The reason for that is my frequent contractions in the past week, which neither I ( I had the same with Aaron) or the doctor seemed to be concerned about but he decided to be on the safe side and ordered another ultrasound to make sure I am not progressing yet. By the end of the day I sometimes have about 4 contractions/hour. They go away as I rest (which is only when Aaron is resting) and I don't feel them at night. It seems like my doctors order an ultrasound for anything:) Not a big deal except that taking care of Aaron in the middle of the week and in the middle of the day while I am at the doctor's is not always convenient for Cliff's work. But...it's better to be safe than sorry.

Last weekend we enjoyed a visit from Greg and Cathy. Aaron (and us) was so happy to have them here. On the weekend we went to an airplane show and had a good time there. The highlight for Aaron, though, was the military Hummers. He got to sit in one of them and I later regreted letting him do so, as he was very upset to have to get out of it after about 1 minute because there was a line of other kids waiting to try it out. I will probably post more about our little man and his new developments later. Will try to upload a video here in a second.